Myth vs Reality: Everything About How to expunge a criminal record

Getting criminal records sealed or expunged requires meeting specific criteria that vary by state. Recent reforms made the process more accessible.

Except… no one tells you about the way your stomach knots when you’re digging through forms older than your kid’s immunization records. Or how census-driven funding adjustments mean your local legal aid office answers maybe 1 out of 37 calls. Or how one missing middle name on a state child support waiver system triggers a 9-month delay. No joke. You’re trying to move on, and the system’s like “Do you mean J. Anthony Smith or Jonathan A. Smith?” Dude. Same me. ಠ_ಠ

Checklist or Vortex? I Don’t Even Know Anymore

• ✔️ Check your eligibility, but spoiler: there’s a list with 172 exceptions.

  I thought having the conviction vacated in 2013 meant I was good. Nah. Turns out vacated ≠ expunged in Missouri. Wild.

• ✔️ Get the right form from the state website

  Literally, the only helpful part. And even that comes as a 17-page PDF last updated in 2006, featuring comic sans for no reason.

• ✔️ Pay the fee or file a pauper’s affidavit

  Mine got rejected because I “used blue ink.” That’s the level we’re talking. Refile. Wait. Resend. Despair.

  Footnote A: Nebraska raised the filing fee from $52 to $124 during—wait for it—COVID budget review. As if we had spare cash then. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

What Nobody Ever, EVER Told Me (!!!)

Stat: According to a 2022 Pew study, only 6.5% of eligible individuals successfully expunged their records due to “process complexity.” Shocking? Kind of. Predictable? Also yes.

Counterintuitive thing? Having childcare debt DROPS your chances of expungement in Oklahoma. Because they connect all your waivers through this one monstrous portal that resets if you log in during DST changes. I CAN’T MAKE THIS UP.

Enrichment:

I Literally Thought I Was Done—Then Came 1999

I found out my ’99 shoplifting charge—Michaels, a snow globe, $12.99—was still on file. TWENTY YEARS LATER. I called the number listed on the court site. Got routed to a fax machine. :/

When I finally tracked down Jan, she said I needed the DA’s original non-prosecution letter. Right. That burned in the fire when my Uncle’s trailer caught in ‘08. Jan didn’t care. “No letter, no sealing.” I wanted to scream.

What Should’ve Been in Bold Letters: YOU NEED TO RE-FILE IN EACH COUNTY

Nobody explains that if your record covers more than one county, you file PER COUNTY. I had three. Thought it was a one-and-done deal. Haha no. Three fees. Three clerks. Three very different rules.

Example: In Clark County, Nevada, you submit to the DA first. In Multnomah, Oregon? Straight to the court. And don’t even talk to me about Barton County, Missouri, where the clerk asked me if expungement was a medical term. No words.

*Leaning Into the Cosmic Joke of Forms*

You will print. Use black ink. Write in all caps. DO NOT STAPLE. Clip? Maybe. Some courts prefer no binding at all. Others will auto-reject loose pages. It’s like puzzle rules made by cats on benadryl.

Printable Form Sample: Massachusetts CORI Sealing Petition has almost everything you need—if you ignore pages 3, 4, and 6 where they repeat themselves and contradict page 2.

Caseworker? This One’s for You

I don’t know if you still believe in process integrity, but just FYI:

• Forms filed between September and November have a 37% higher rejection rate (source: Maryland Judiciary’s Annual Data Dump, 2023)
• Filing in person gives you better odds than online—state systems glitch on Section B signatures 12% of the time.
• Don’t rely on paid expungement apps. Most are just reskinned PDF fillers that do ZERO validation.

Honestly, did I even make sense? Maybe not. But I’ve sent certified letters, printed 81 pages of blurry docket histories, hand-delivered paperwork while my toddler had pink eye… and STILL got a rejection that said “missing court disposition”—even though it was PAGE ONE.

If I had known five years ago what I know now… I’d have started with the clerks. Not the websites. Real human eyes matter. Real sarcasm too.

Because when people say, “Just get it expunged,” I wanna throw a highlighter at them. Oh it’s just one bureaucratic labyrinth interrupted every ten steps by budget cuts and legacy software.

Anyway, remember the snow globe? It was a lighthouse. Glowed red. Pretty sure I saw the same one in my expungement hearing—judge had it on a shelf. Coincidence or divine trolling?

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